belive nothing trust no one question everything

Agreed. That's why I intentionally, have few real friends.

They always let "someone else" know, if it's true. I guess they (your 'mates') are trying to see if you're like them; a:
"Simp... Simp... desperation for pvssy."
Replicant Fish

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Stupid Girly games spread by fuckwits.
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IF a woman is genuine about liking you, she can come up to you and fucking well say so to your face.
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AND if "friends" are pulling these stunts, get better friends.
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There are genuine friends who like to give a bit of a shit stir, and then there are stupid people who are fucking jerkoffs.
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It's a bit like the great wife, and all your friends, who are great friends, up to the point that bitch decides to back door you, to kick you out and get her boyfriend in, and then the cunt runs around telling everyone what a bastard you are and what you have been doing to her and the children....

Then a) It's none of their business, b) they were not there, and c) none of them have asked you for your side of the story....

BUT all of these two faced cunts will turn on you, because she said so.....

So absolutely genuine people - they are not that rare, but there is a difference between talk and action and most people just talk shit to fit in with all the other people who talk shit to fit in.

That is all they are - is cheap people.