Curing Tom's Oneitis - MGTOW

In this video I respond to a subscribers please for help in dealing with his suicidal feelings in relation to an unrequited love.

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Hey Everybody, Marcus here.

A young man had left a comment on a few of my videos reaching out for help in dealing with his suicidal disposition brought on by a particular unremitting emotional attachment to a girl. He submitted this request to quite a number of other MGTOW content creators. Some have already responded to his plea for help through either video or comment form. This video is my contribution in hopefully helping him overcome his situation.
His comment reads as follows:

I am very suicidal over this 'nawalt' girl I have severe oneitis for and am in dire need of some mgtow help and input from a Mgtow mentor such as yourself. This may be a little long but bear with me, I am truly in dire straits and have even attempted suicide over this girl. I have a video request that you look at the causes of and actionable solutions to oneitis. I am severely depressed and suicidal over a Canadian-Irish girl I knew from grade 10 of high school. She was the first girl I truly loved and I emotionally invested so much in her it left me irrevocably traumatized. I still present many behaviours symptomatic of PTSD from this ordeal. My oneitis has driven me to the point of attempting suicide, as much as I can intellectually accept "AWALT" as a way of debunking oneitis, she is a very mature only child with a ton in common and the strongest connection I’ve ever had with another person. Her nawalt status, especially compared to the cesspool of other women out there, is nigh on impossible to demote and depedestalize when I've been close to her for three years and she stands out from every other female of any age group I've ever interacted with in her self-awareness, genuine character and altruistic demeanour.

How do I go about getting over this oneitis, having driven me to the verge of suicide, not least when the scarcity of these types of Human beings is driven in to you and she truly is a needle in a Canadian-Irish hay stack. The Canadian Irish girl I refer to is 18, as am I. Her accent, laugh, smile, way she does her mousy blonde hair, thoughtfulness, reserved nature, feminine body language and coyness, everything about her character personality and physicality I have the "nawalt" oneitis lens on with her topped off with such sheer amount in common and similarities between us and it felt like the "one" that I can never invest this much emotionally ever again due to the utter and absolute emotional damage incurred to the point of suicidality and entirely lacking a will to live without her, the unrequited love of my life.

P.S. This information is truly vital to my personal wellbeing and safety, as I am legitimately very suicidal over this Canadian Irish Virgin of 18 and am thus in dire need of a how-to handbook to demote her from her severely ingrained nawalt status and overcome my incredibly, unremittingly acute/severe case of oneitis ASAP. It is truly imperative as I am so close to the edge, in truth.
Tom.

Now, before I proceeded in producing this video for Tom, I asked him as to his religious views. I find that it is important to work within the belief system of someone as far as matters of life and death are concerned. Tom replied that he is a Buddhist. This reply caught me slightly off guard at first. The reason for this is that Buddhism contains within its tenets and practices all the tools that Tom would need to deal with his problem. However, I also understand that he might be new to Buddhist practices and so might not have yet had the opportunity or mentorship to show him that he is already on the path of his own healing.

Now, other content creators who would address Tom’s situation will surely reaffirm several common MGTOW talking point that are pertinent to this case. This video, however, will not be doing any of that.

Tom, what I want to do for you is to help you understand what is happening to you from within the Buddhist framework. As you are already somewhat committed to this path, I would like to spend some time going through how Buddhism can help with your situation. However, as I do not know how well you are familiar with Buddhism, I will need to start from the beginning. In addition to this, I want to tell you the Buddhist story as it pertains to death.