Default life for men is likely alone. It's better to adjust to that sooner rather than later.

Love the Triumph T-shirt. Bonnevilles rock!!!

What happened to the Beard???

One of the critical ingredients in a man's life is peace. And the world does its best to take that away from you, for personal/economic/other reasons. Protect your peace gents, and be great.

I have a phrase I quote. You ain't any good to anyone if you ain't any good to yourself. It's NOT selfish to put yourself first, just the way you do it is all that matter's.

The best thing in life I found was "Being Alone" I live by it now. I stopped trying to be what the critic's wanted and learned to like ME, not in a narcissistic way but in an acceptance of what I am is what I will always be. It's worked out well. No guilt or pressure, no need for validation and learning not to any longer Give ANY fuck's! Remember that being ALONE has nothing to do with LONELINESS. You can be surrounded by people wealth everythinbg you ever wanted and be REALLY lonely. Being alone with a simple acceptance of one's self you can achieve goals yo0u never dreamed of and fuck every critic or outsider. they mean nothing to you, go your own way and LIVE for yourself. all my SELFLESS years or Marriage and shit like that just wasted my life away. So for all those SELFLESS years I now concentrate on ME, and NO that isn't being SELFISH, I call it playing CATCH UP for what I lost from including others that frankly just used ME. Peace Gentlemen.