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Don't You Ever Enforce Monogamy On Your Partner! (Here Is Why)

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Published on 16 Jul 2019 / In Film & Animation

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset, how to be a man and how to become the best version of yourself, financially, physically, mentally and socially!

Today's topic is about adultery, meaning whether or not people should be loyal to their significant other of not. I'll tell why am I against it not from the legal side and societal view but rather because it all has to do with you and how you value yourself.

This topic was suggested by one of you guys, on one of my videos someone commented if it would be good or not to force monogamy and ban adultery and cheating. Making it illegal forcing security and loyalty on both the partners.

First of all this is a very very very dangerous concept. As I've said in many of my videos before, seeking security and comfort comes at e very high personal price.

Taking my life as an example I've tried to build certainty and security many times and I did seek a fortress that will protect me from any harm. But what I ended up doing wasn't securing my life but rather building a prison. I was trapping my life with every extra barrier I was putting around me emotional, physically, emotionally, socially etc...

It all changed when I reflected this quote from Tony Robbins saying in one of his seminars that I attended: The quality of your life is in direct proportion with the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably live with.

And that's what I want you guys to realize and think about.

People do come up with these solutions to "fix" society as it is so screwed up and problematic. Forcing monogamy and banning adultery or cheating with kind of contract or law will be dangerous.

When you'll see these solutions your life will be dull, you'll become lazy you'll stop trying to become the best version of yourself, your life won't have any kind trigger to it. It is a fact that we humans are the laziest creatures by nature, and unless with have a motivation to get rid of our laziness and be active by habit to peruse the best version of ourselves we will always stay sterile.

Add to that by taking uncertainty away from your relationship you're taking away a lot of what makes life exciting, authentic and adventurous.

Why authenticity you may ask? how does enforcing monogamy and illegalizing cheating or adultery can affect and reduce authenticity as a negative consequence?

Well that's what I'm gonna get into in this video and more so make sure you watch it till the end!

As for me guys I'll see you in the next video, until then make sure you're subscribed, ring the bell to be notified when new videos come out and most importantly leave a comment so you might be responsible for the next video's topic!


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