Fear of Hitting The Wall (Breakdown) Guys Only Want Two Things

WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG!
It's not about finding your soul mate or some nebulous infantile dreamy nonsense, it's about what you plan on doing with your life. If you're a young woman and you want a 'career', GAME OVER ON FAMILY. If you are a young woman and you go to college, GAME OVER ON FAMILY! If you're a young woman and you're 'living your best' and riding the carousel, GAME OVER ON FAMILY! You have put the cart before the horse, you have bought the lie that women and men are equal, and you have already stuck your neck through the snare that robs you of your greatest and most fulfilling purpose. 26 is too late because your priorities were backward and that slow build to a good bond will not happen overnight. Family should come first if family is what you want, and even then you can't have it unless you can see past your emotional reasoning and the narratives telling you that you are a queen and can have it all.

And YOU are to blame for this because all of the reproductive power is in YOUR HANDS! You decide who's having families, you decide when to 'settle', all of it, all reproductive rights, and even some men's reproductive rights belong to you. You hold the power, YOU hold the responsibility.

Enjoy your feminist trophies.... oh wait, there are none.

She is tacky and desperate - AND an epic failure.

Epiphany at 26 is better than most wahmyn these days.