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How To Stand Up For Yourself To Your Friends And Be A Man | Learn when To Say NO!

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Published on 29 Apr 2019 / In Film & Animation

What's up Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

Today's topic is something we all dealt with or have to deal with sometimes, and it requires somewhat of a soft-skill to be able to handle it well, in situations with your friends when they somewhat bully you or tell you what to do and in general when they assume that "alpha" male position over you and you don't like it.

However it's not just about that but the fact that you know you need to confront and stand up to your friends, but you don't know how to do so.

It's a common situation to be in, where you don't want to look like the bad person, so you're put in this hard position where it's somewhat hard to get out of there and stand up for yourself.

So essentially in this video I will answer the question: how to stand up for yourself, to your friends and the man, and learn when to say no to something

And again this video is another request from a follower who essentially have a problem with a gym buddy of his, where he's put in a situation he doesn't like and doesn't know how to stand up for himself, and assume leadership for his situation without coming off as a bad person and ruining his relationship with his friend.

What I will also be talking about is also avoiding pitfalls and situations where you don't really have the ability to stand up on your feet in case you end up confronting this individual who's assuming a higher position over you.

Because I know, a lot of you guys are applying the lessons I'm teaching you, you're talking to that girl you like, you're making better friendships, you're holding the frame... But are you ready to assume that position you're trying to hold? and is it worth it? is it the right moment to say no?

For example, there were encounters with guys, who I knew for a fact I can mop the floor with their faces, however I just disarm the situation and walk away, because I'm there is something else I want to do, I'm not there to waste my time or pump my ego.

I know I'm the man, so what's the point of me proving that to someone who have no impact over my life. Well if someone crosses the line, I'll calmly handle the situation but I don't need to show nor prove anything, because sometimes you got to let other people save face and understand their position, because it's gonna be better in the long run for you and for them in the long run.

So let's get into today's topic and hopefully it's of some value to you!

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