Should You Be Blackpilled About Dating? My Personal Experience

Color me weird, but dating women just wasn't a priority, with few exceptions. Still isn't. Never married. Only sibling in my family with no kids (best of my knowledge). Got plenty of sex (relatively speaking) thrown at me, but many women just bored me long term; post nut clarity perhaps (CGA). Been monk mode now 19yrs.

The way I look at black pill is it is an existential conundrum. Essentially a video game where you didn’t choose your character, but are forced to play. If you are chasing all these things for the hope of getting relationships and sex, even your own life isn’t your own and you may not even like it. You have to have things in your life that are relevant to you now, and not in some far off future because you will never appreciate now. Say that you’re climbing the ladder, you’re on your grind. Hustling, hitting the gym, working on your finances, eating right, all that shit. But you die before you hit the goal, or you died before you got laid or whatever. Was your life worthwhile?
I’m not saying that you appellant do these things. You should, but you would do things you enjoy and make your life more robust in the now. Not for some girl or some ego gratification bs. For you.
This is your only life. Do not waste it on something that is really not as important as we think it is.