The Friend Zone: How To Get Out Of It!

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Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset, how to be a man and how to become the best version of yourself, financially, physically, mentally and socially!

In today's video I'll be answering one of my followers' E-mail where he's asking me what's the best way to handle a situation where he asked a roommate of his for a date and she basically told him she's not ready to be in one due to her past with another guy, without him getting friendzoned.

Now the first thing I noticed is the fact that you live with this girl, the thing is guys, if you put a guy and a girl together long enough somewhere they will start developing feelings towards each other. You as a man you should develop your masculinity and manhood, and you do that by interacting with other men and NOT LIMITING YOUR CHOICE OF WOMEN. A s a guy you must always be on the lookout for girls, so if you have the means you should try and move out with a guy, and avoid living together with a girl especially if you do like her.

Now for your situation here, it's somewhat tricky because you already put yourself in the friend zone, you shouldn't give her choice, you must just take action and not make it as obvious.

Giving girls choices make them stressed and pressured where you put the burden of preforming on them,. You must take the initiative, it's up to girl to decided to accept you or not, BUT NOT TELL YOU WHEN THEY'RE READY!

You must always be on the lookout, meaning don't limit your choices, you are the guy, you're the one who does the initiation and pursuing, you take on the burden on preforming and handling choices.

As I said in the video it's like a movie, in a good movie the writers don't just put the story event in your face, a bad movie does so, where the main character have some diary and start writing stuff. While with a good movie you see hints or the MC's past, you connect the dots you yourself are developing your sense of the story with each passing scene.

Same thing with girls, you shouldn't be as obvious and direct, you must keep a sense of mystery and enigma to it. You both know what's going on however you don't just jump the gun into the conclusion, that's how seduction works.

You get yourself into the friend zone (friendzone) only you try to play it safe or be too much obvious about it, there is a fine line that you must learn how to deal with, and doing that requires practice.

Anyways guys, there is more into it; that I'll get into in the video, so make sure you watch it till the end!

As for me I shall see you in the next video.


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