To the guy who wants to know why he's lonely and sad

Almost every Boy, Man, and elder already knows this.

The wisdom of a very young woman that has almost no life experience, and what life experience she has came from a place of extreme protection, insulation, and worship on the internet. When your life is required in selective services, grade schools to college teach toxic femininity courses, and special laws are made to protect the gender you aren't, all media devalues your gender and promotes violence against you, you are the higher suicide risk, and every court in the land begins favoring men over women, I might entertain the possibility that she would know what loneliness by ostracism is really like. Until the day comes, which it won't, then this was flatulence from a child.

I made it to 44 seconds and had to turn her off...

It's that god awful combination of teen age girl incessant chatter and an evolving form of nagging....

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I understand the want to associate, but it is NOT a need. Being raised by a single mother, being "taught" hypergamy to go after the best female I could get and never settling, really exhausted me.
I found that being Okay with myself was more important than social acceptance. I found groups of people that I could have fun with, but I need time on my own to recharge and finding balance important.

I am alone but not lonely. I have a few friends but I find that most people are backstabbers, selfish, and only care about themselves. The people who are supposed to love, care, and accept you (family & relatives) are often times the very ones who hurt and reject you and stab you in the back. That's been my experience.
I like being alone.
I like living by myself.
I like doing things and going places by myself.
The MGTOW Monk lifestyle suits me just fine.
At 70 years old, I have no intention on changing now. Being single has a lot of advantages.