AITA Post 14 RPM

Is he the asshole? Short answer: NO. Long answer: HELL NO.

It will NEVER go back to how it was before. He was her "hail mary" pass. Her friends and family will never like him, and will always be whispering in her ear from now on. He said it's an uproar in "my family/friends circle." So even his own family is against him? Dude needs to cut all ties to anyone that betrayed him. Let them come crawling back.
"Run Forest! Run!"

She offloads all her negativity into the hands of friends and family members just so she can have plausible deniability and avoid culpability for how she is making him feel. Sorry women but we understand how you operate. We know for a fact that it's your presence in our life that spawned all the negativity. And if that's what we have to look forward to in a relationship with you, then the answer is, in short, NO. The longform answer is NOOOOOOOOOOO

Don't waste your time. He doesn't realize how much value he has, if he's presenting a counterproposal. Either way, she brings nothing but a vag. Just say NO, and if she walks, let her walk, and count your blessings that she exposed her hand before you lost your shirt. NO waah?man is worth the headache. NO cohabitation, no marriage (in this era), and NO SINGLE MOTHERS!